Bonnie and I spoke on the phone and texted each other during her courageous fight against cancer., However, my dear wife Nancy, Bonnie's aunt, says she will forever remember Bonnie's sweet, unelfish demeanor. Her faith in almighty God led her to help disadvantaged people in many ways. Nancy and I both believe Heaven is made much stronger with Bonnie's presence!

Have you ever wondered, “What does LOVE look like”? Well, if you knew Bonnie- then, you saw it! Sweet, gentle, non-judgmental, holy, kind, compassionate Bonnie EMBODIED Love! She knew that “Love is ACTION” and “Love DOES”! We are all better people for knowing her. Bonnie was the Radiance of God’s Glory!!

Back in the 1970s, I lived with my aunt and uncle and my cousins, Cindy and Bonnie, for a few years while I was in high school. After graduation, I went away to college and as the years went on and we all went our separate ways, my contact with my cousins was, unfortunately, relegated to the occasional phone call and a yearly Christmas card. This last May, I had an opportunity to speak with Bonnie for the first time in decades, and I was struck by how little she seemed to have changed from the sweet, kind, and considerate girl that I knew so well, so very long ago. Bonnie embodied all of the qualities that are so important in this world, and I am sure that she leaves a legacy that won’t be forgotten anytime soon. My deepest condolences to her family during this very difficult time.

"A life well lived".. as I've been hearing from those who loved & knew her. Bonnie, was a gentle soul -- sensitive, generous, and always wise beyond her years. That humble spirit of putting others' feelings & needs before her own was where her kind, quiet strength shone through, embodying a life of subtle joy in helping others. She would half-jokingly refer to herself as an "introvert", once reflecting that when growing up, she sometimes felt invisible in school. She went on to marry her soulmate, Ralph, where she was devoted to her 2 children. It was the seemingly insignificant things like changing diapers, wiping tears, managing daily mundane household tasks, child rearing, children growing... the stresses, the joys, the life adventures, fears, good times and hard times that she served unwaveringly.. and where she ultimately he met the one who would become her true source of strength & guidance, Christ. She faithfully stayed the course throughout those years, to her very last breath, when we were with her. Never complaining in all the pain Bonnie would sometimes Lament that she didn't have a college education, or maybe didn't feel like she'd accomplished much in her life. But ask some of the Neighbors on her street... an elderly person here or there, whom she tirelessly helped, making sure they were safe & cared for. She also loved her volunteer work in the community for many years, for as long as she was able. Ask those whose lives she'd touched by her patient listening, prayers, and her encouraging motto that she lived by: "Give it to The One who can do something about it". At the end of her life, she left nothing. unfinished. But she did leave behind, seeds ... memories of diligent loving kindness , her inspiring quiet strength and faith .. and many stored up prayers that will oneday come to fruition. Her shortened time here, really was a life well lived.

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Bonnie was such an inspiration to all who knew her. She will be greatly missed.

Sending my sympathy and love to Ralph, Vincent, April, the grandchildren, furry family and especially Cindy. May you find peace in knowing she is in heaven and no longer feels any pain or the constraints of this world.

Ralph - I am so sorry for your loss. Please let me know if there is anything any of us can do. Take your time coming back to work. Sorry buddy -

May Bonnie's memories bring you joy and peace.

Please accept our most sincere condolences during this time of profound loss. We extend our heartfelt sympathy to you and your family as you mourn the passing of your beloved wife. Her grace, warmth, and enduring spirit touched many lives and will be remembered with deep affection. May you find solace in the cherished memories you shared and strength in the love that surrounds you. Her legacy will continue to shine through all those she inspired.

Ralph, I am SO sorry for your loss. Bonnie seemed like such a wonderful woman and I'm sad to never have met her. Your RMI family is with you and hold you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

Ralph, please accept my heartfelt condolences. Bonnie was clearly very loved, and I can only imagine how much she meant to you. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Please accept our deepest sympathies to you and family! There are no words, but there is much love surrounding you and your family in the memories of your loving wife. May her legacy live on

I’m deeply sorry for your loss of Bonnie. My heart is with you, Vincent, and April, and I’m holding you all in my thoughts during this incredibly difficult time.

Love you Bonnie. One of the best women I’ve ever known. I know you are with our Lord and Savior. My deepest condolences to your family.

My thoughts are with you and your family. I love you, April ❤️

Ralph, you have our deepest sympathy! Bonnie was a very kind and genuine person! She always saw the best in people.

Bonnie was such an inspiration throughout her ordeal. She will be greatly missed. I have no doubt that she is in the presence of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

I first met Bonnie in High school. We were polar opposites......she was quiet and studious.....I was loud and obnoxious. But we had at least established an acquittance say hello.....that sort of thing. Then she met my friend Ralph and they never looked back. They were inseperable from the day they met. Got married....moved to Virginia had 2 beautiful children and never ever looked back. Bonnie went from being the shy girl in my World Cultures class to being the wife of one of my best friends.....and in that time I think I still occasionally made her nervous. But that was where Bonnie's true heart shone through.....she loved Ralph dearly and if that meant she had to deal with his boisterous friend and his old beat up car....well then that's what she was going to do.. And you can't help but respect that. She always made me feel welcome around her even if I was coming in on 2 wheels with my hair on fire. And I'll always love her for that. She was a wonderful person and a good friend. I'll miss her.

I'm so sorry for your loss. My love goes out to the family, sending healing and energy.

Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.