Robert Alfred Stoeffler - Cremation Society of Virginia

Robert Alfred Stoeffler

April 30, 1953 - May 27, 2019

Robert A. Stoeffler 66 of Newport News, passed away May 27, 2019. Cremation Society of Virginia (Chesapeake Office) is handling the arrangements.

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Robert A. Stoeffler 66 of Newport News, passed away May 27, 2019. Cremation Society of Virginia (Chesapeake Office) is handling the arrangements.

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I am so very sorry for your loss.

What started as my mechanic in San Diego soon became my friend for 25 years. Within 5 min of meeting Bob you were clear he had a unique passion for all things cars. He loved cars and sharing his passion with the people around him. God seemed silent in the details of his life until he met Patrice. Looking back it is clear to me people were Gods language for Bob. Gods will was revealed when Patrice was pregnant with Trevor. He was full of Joy and Gratitude. His voice would go up 4 octaves when talking about Trevor. His loving heart for Trevor will always be present on earth as in Heaven as Bob is in our heavenly fathers loving arms. I will miss his kind voice a great deal.

Trevor we are praying for you and send our love. So sorry to hear this sad news.

Trevor we are thinking of you and wish you peace as you find comfort with friends and family.

We will be holding a memorial service in August sometime so that all of Bob's family and friends from out of town, as well as all of you that have shared on his obituary will be able to attend. God bless each and every one of you. Thank you for your love and support!!

Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.

My love, eventually you will smile while talking about your father before you shed a tear. You are not “moving on”, you are simply moving forward, and bringing his memory along with you. If there’s one thing I loved about your father, it was certainly that you could absolutely tell he was proud of the man you are becoming. He called you often while I was around and just sounded absolutely ecstatic to hear about what new things you were up to with work, your car, and much more. I’m so glad you got to feel his love, and please remember that it will always surround you. If you ever need to relieve your stress or ease the pain, I will be right beside you, and I will be a listening ear or even just company in the silence. Others broken hearted from loss, grief has no expiration date. “Remember always that you are allowed to feel and be exactly as you are because this is your experience and no one else’s.”

Trevor I know that this is an extremely difficult time for you right now. It breaks my heart to see you in so much pain. I can see it in your eyes. But as you read these lovely condolences from some of our dearest friends. Please find comfort and know that so many people love and care about you. You have a beautiful family on your Dad's side. Your big sister Suzanne, your Aunt Carol, cousin Alia, cousin Josh, and cousin Carly and their loved ones and family. They are there for you son, and be sure to reach out to them too. You all can find comfort because you all are affected by his passing. Love Mom

Trevor, we are so sorry to hear about the loss of your father. We are thinking of you at this difficult time.

Trevor, I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. My heartfelt condolences goes out to you and your loved ones. You are in my prayers son. Pam N.

Trevor, May God continue to hold the family in the palm of his hands and remember he will never leave you or forsake you. Ms. Barbara

I felt like I was talking to Bob today, when talked to his son Trevor. I loved Bob like a Brother. He will be in my heart forever. Ron White, June 2nd 2019

I’m so sorry for your loss. Love and hugs from the west coast.

We are so sorry to hear of your father's passing away. We know you will miss him.

Thinking of you Trevor! Fathers always hold a special place in your heart. Take comfort in your happiest of memories! - Stephen, Jenn, Abbey and Brayden

So sorry for your loss Trevor,Patrice and family.

Our condolences to you Trevor, Patrice and family. Trevor, this is a difficult time but your dad will always be listening from above. Trevor, you are an amazing son. Stay strong. You, Patrice and your family are in our prayers. We love you!

Trevor Death is never easy but just know your dad will live on within you. My extended prayers to you and your family. I am only a HUG away!!! Crystal

We are so very sorry for your loss! You and your family are in our prayers during this difficult time. With deepest sympathy.........

Sooo sorry for your loss our prayers are with you and family,Much love

We are so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family.

Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.

I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that your family is in my prayers.

We are so very sorry for your loss and pray for your peace and comfort.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family!! My deepest condolences and sympathies!

Trevor, I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that God will comfort you during this time. Just know that you were an amazing son to your Dad and it's because of you that he lived as long as he did! We love you and we are here for you! Blessings

Sending love and light to you Trevor in your time of grief. May you continue grow and inspire many as your father would desire you too. Be encouraged nephew and remember we’re always just a phone call away.

My dearest cousin, I remember when you were just a new baby & I came to spend the night - the way your dad looked at you with such love & amazement! I just know that adoration only grew over the years. I pray you hold on to the good memories & sentiments, & take comfort in knowing the man you’ve grown & are growing into would have continuously made him (& makes ALL of us who love you) so incredibly proud!! Cling to Aunt Tree - I’ve witnessed her cope through tremendous loss & remain faithful to God & limitlessly loving! BIG love from your big cousin & this whole West Coast Coley side.

Wishing peace and happy memories to Trevor and all of Bob's family.

Trevor, We are so sorry to hear of your dad's passing. We are here for you praying for you. With Love, Rhiannon and the Jordan Family

Dear Sweet Trevor, Sending much love & prayers of comfort at this most difficult heartbreaking time for you. Hold close to those that love you to help you. With love, Sheilah Smith

Trevor, Our family is sending you love and prayers during this tough time. It is never easy to lose a parent, but remember they are with you, inside you, every step of the way. You will always carry your dad with you and that will never change. When you want to talk to him, do it. He will hear it, because he is with you. There will always be a hole in your heart for him, but fill it with fun stories and good memories. Those are the things that will get you through. Big hugs from California.

What a wonderful pictorial of you and your dad! We know this time is difficult, I hope sending you our love and hope for comfort will some how help you get through this. From my knees to His ears Treavor. Kathi Parsons and Bill Lewis

Trevor, Mark and I are very sorry to hear about the loss of your dad! Sending you hugs and prayers!

Growing up I knew him as Mr Bob. I didn't have a close Relationship with him but I noticed that he was always With his family, and he Always Interacted and was Involvedd With His son. Later on in life as I grew older I noticed him around The church I attend, always Holding his Bible eager to Grow close to God, and I witnessed him helping whenever he could. Mr Bob was A Good Person, kind-hearted and Sincere. My Heart felt Condolences go out to His Family, To my Brother Trevor, My Second Mother Patrice and Any other Relatives of Mr Bob.

Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.