James Scott Abelquist
Date of Death: February 16, 2023
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Racheal Abelquist
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Racheal Abelquist
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James Scott Abelquist passed away on February 16th, 2023 at 7:06 p.m. in Virginia Beach, Virginia. He was born to Susan Howarth and Paul Abelquist. He met the woman that would become the center of his world, Racheal Abelquist, when she was only 18 and he was 27. They spent 26 years together, which was…

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Racheal Abelquist left a message on June 24, 2025:
I love you baby
Racheal Abelquist left a message on June 24, 2025:
babe even though time keeps passing and they say time heals all wounds they lied it doesn't it's harder every day to get up and carry on without you. I miss your love and your smell and your touch and the way you always knew what I was thinking what I wanted or needed. how you and only you could make all right in our lives with just a look or a touch or when I would be having one if my spells you could hold me and I wouldnlay my head on your chest and you would tell me to listen to the beat of your heart and tell me to block everything else out and to concentrate on you and I together in your arms in that time and moment and no nothing else mattered amd I would comebout of it. I miss that no matter what we was facing you always made it an adventure and me and beccah never felt scared of anything cause we had you and as long as we had you then there was nothing we couldn't face. but facing that night watching you take your last breath was the scariest and hardest thing I had to do watching beccah climb on top of you beating on your chest screaming no daddy no don't leave me I'm not ready I promise I'll be a good girl just stay here with me was something that almost killed me having to make that call and tell Brooklyn you had passed and hearing the hurt in her voice is something I will never forget. I couldn't bring myself to tell scottie as I couldn't bare to hear his hurt and I know in that moment you was there holding each of them in your arms as you had me so many times. but God what I wouldn't give to be able to say I love you and feel those Arms around me for even just a moment to feel whole and complete for just a second. I love you big dog and can't wait to see you soon love forever your sweetheart. I love you daddy momma will be with you again one day.
Scotty Abelquist left a message on January 17, 2025:
I love you so much Dad. I miss you every single second of the Day. Fly High thank you for the Amazing Memories
Racheal Abelquist left a message on April 20, 2024:
Happy Birthday baby 2 years ago today we was given the most horrible news ever that you was gonna be in for the fight of your life. I watched you fight harder than you have in all our years together just to spend one more day one more hour one more minute one more second here on this earth with us and I am the luckiest woman in the world cause I got to call you my husband and beign your wife and Beign an Abelquist was something I still cherrish to this day the love you showed me through out the years was like no other. I miss the little things like how you had to wrap your feet around mine when we slept so you knew I was there at all times or the way I would wake up and catch you staring at me and you would always say I can't help it your so beautiful just laying there. The pain of losing you hasn't stopped nor has it lessend any. I will love you till I take my last breath baby
Racheal Abelquist left a message on April 26, 2023:
hey love so your bday has came and went and it was so hard to not have you here to be able to celebrate it with. You are never going to be forgotten I celebrate you every single day and my life will never be normal without you in it. you are the other half of me and not a day goes by that I don't feel that emptiness of your loss. I will forever hold you in my heart mind and soul. I love you. you are my everything.
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Racheal Abelquist left a message on March 17, 2023:
Baby yesterday was a month that you have been gone from my life but please know you are never gone from my heart or my mind. Every second of every day you are there. I will continue to live my life to make you proud and to represent the Abelquist name as that's one of the things you taught me was to proud of who I was and your wife is and who I am. even though I have never in my life felt the pain I feel without you near it doesn't compare to the love I felt with and from you the devotion and understanding you gave me. I am the luckiest woman in the world cause I had you to love me and the love you provided is like a love no other in this world will ever know. until we are together again my love. It's you baby it's always been you it will always be you.
Michael Abelquist left a message on March 12, 2023:
1989. Bro-do! Ya took off to be a roady with Mötley Crüe,Theatre of Pain Tour. Remember how Mom was SO worried? And Dad was So pissed! Only thing that stopped you was being underage and passport lacking. You came back, Dad cut your hair, and you joined the Army. You brought me home a hand grenade,a field jacket and field manual. Got stopped three times! For a god damned hand grenade! 🤣 Bro-Do, Even Hollywood couldn't make up the plotlines of our lives! All lies aside! 💔
Michael C. Abelquist left a message on March 10, 2023:
Scooter,my brother, I am missing you terribly already. Truth is, I have been for a long time. You and I will kick it tohether soon enough. See you then Bro-Do! Love, Michael
Daniel Glomb left a message on March 10, 2023:
Scott was definitely one of the good ones.. I met him through his children Scotty & Brooke.. just seeing how happy the kids were everytime they got to see him. after a time or two of him coming to see the kids we became friends .. Scott was one of those people that would Brighten up a room when he entered and try to put a smile everyone's face..I am so sorry for your loss.. just know that Scott was a really great person and we will miss him ...
Jessica Kyrargyros left a message on February 26, 2023:
My love and condolences go out to you and your family! This breaks my heart, but I know he’s no longer in pain and in a better place. I’m always here if you need me❤️Love you, your favorite Waffle House server Jessica
Racheal and Beccah Abelquist left a message on February 23, 2023:
The world's greatest husband father best friend soulmate and most of the greatest man we know. We love and miss you every second of every minute of every hour baby.
Racheal Abelquist left a message on February 23, 2023:
Scott I'm so lost without you. I haven't figured out how I'm supposed to go on without you by my side. I have spent 26 years of my life with you beside me holding me up and supporting me in everything I have ever done. You was my biggest supporter the love of my life my everything. I love you so much. It's always been you it will always be you it is just you and I my love till my last breath
Courtney Wilkins left a message on February 22, 2023:
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Cremation Society of Virginia left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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