Michael “Troy” Willis - Cremation Society of Virginia

Michael "Troy" Willis

December 1, 1968 - June 23, 2025

Remembering a Life Well Lived

It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Michael “Troy” Willis, who departed this world on Monday, June 23, 2025. Troy was a beloved son, brother, grandson, cherished friend, and a bright light and large presence to this world in which he left too soon.

Born on December 1, 1968, Troy grew up in Virginia Beach and Currituck and then headed to UNC Chapel Hill, Atlanta ultimately returning to Virginia Beach where he shared is love of making people feel special, happy and bringing joy to so many people he met. In talking to so many people these past few days the words and feelings seemed to be the same message…”Troy was always smiling, happy and was a big presence that will be missed.” Troy was known for his ability to make the world a more beautiful place through his love of design (furniture, interiors and fashion).

Among his many passions, Troy was deeply devoted to giving back to those who experienced domestic abuse and older adults in nursing homes, which brought joy not only to his own life but to those around them. His generosity knew no bounds, and his ability to see the good in others made him a beacon of hope in challenging times.

Troy is survived by his mother (Patricia Willis), sister (Laurie Jordan (and husband Howard), brother (Ryan Willis (and husband Rodney Harkey), niece (Sarah Ritter) and an aunt and cousins. He will be joining his father (Michael Willis) who passed on April 17, 2022, but will be mourned by a community of friends and colleagues whose lives were touched by their warmth and wisdom. While his physical presence will be deeply missed, his spirit will forever remain a guiding light in our hearts.

It was Troy’s wishes to not have a memorial service, but instead to have people think of him when they see or create beauty in the world. His family had a small personal memorial dinner to talk about so many of the great (and funny) memories of this beautiful person.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to Samaritan’s House in Virginia Beach that helps people with domestic violence and homelessness.

Rest in peace, Troy. Your legacy of love and kindness will endure in the hearts of all who had the privilege to know you.

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Remembering a Life Well Lived It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Michael “Troy” Willis, who departed this world on Monday, June 23, 2025. Troy was a beloved son, brother, grandson, cherished friend, and a bright light and large presence to this world in which he left too soon. Born on…

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Rest in peace Troy you will be missed.

I am so sad to hear of Troy passing. I have such fond memories of all our times spent together, he was such a joy and pleasure to be with. Such a biggest than life personality, always smiling and laughing and making the most of life. I will always cherish him in my heart and hope that his family finds peace and happiness knowing he was so loved by many. A big toast to you Troy!!

I am wishing Troy's mom, sister/brother In-law & brother, special niece, auntie & family my sincere condolences and prayers during this difficult time. I am going to miss Troy so much, as well as our many special moments & conversations. Kisses & hugs to you all. Linda

Troy was a beacon of light for me during a tough time in my life. I still have the red purse he gave me in 2021 as a symbol for a new beginning. Although we drifted a bit due to the circumstances of life, he has held and will continue to hold a very special place in my heart. I carry a purse I bought from him with me everyday. When people have complimented the purses, I proudly told them where I got it and where Troy was located. He will be greatly missed. RIP Troy. You will always be a light in my heart.

In this time of sorrow and loss, may the Lord's love for you be felt by those whom you turn to for strength and guidance. May He wrap His arms around you and grant you His peace that surpasses all understanding. May His words help you find solace in the memories of y(our) loved ones, and guide you through this difficult journey of grief.

Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.

I'm heartbroken to hear about Troy's passing. We shared so many laughs, great conversations, and unforgettable times together. You had a way of lighting up every room, especially when the music started. I'll always cherish the memories we made, and I’ll carry your spirit with me. You are deeply missed and forever loved.

Ryan, my sweet pickleball friend, I am so sorry for your loss. I unfortunately know the pain it feels to lose a brother and I am praying for you and your family. Your brother sounded like an amazing person and he’s got a beautiful smile like yours. May he rest in peace. God bless you all ! 🙏🏼😇 My condolences to you and your family.

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My deepest condolences to Mrs Pat, Laurie and Ryan. I am devastated. Troy was like my big brother. We ate lunch together everyday when working and shared child hood memories. We gave each advice on subjects. I am going to miss you until we meet again. I am devastated. Your friend/mall sister Aniweta

He was truly an amazing person one of the best I’ve ever met. Great friend to say the least and I am now and will always truly miss him.

I am so saddened and shocked by Troys passing. He worked in front of my store and we became fast friends. He was hilarious and had the best advice. I loved how committed he was to making others feel good about themselves. He will be missed is an understatement. I am so sorry to the family as I know he was very close with you all. Troy was wonderful!

My heart felt condolences go out to his family, friends, and associates. May you find strength and comfort during this time and through the process of grieving. He will be truly missed.

My heart felt condolences to the family, friends, and associates of Micheal "Troy" Willis. May you find strength and comfort during this time of sorry and grief. He touched alot of people's lives in a positive way. He will be truly missed.

Brian and I are so sad to hear of Troy’s passing. We were lucky enough to have been invited to his dinner parties. He was always the consummate host and the life of the party. Troy, you will be missed.

Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.