Douglas Randall Gordon - Cremation Society of Virginia

Douglas Randall Gordon

May 7, 1948 - February 18, 2026

Douglas Randall Gordon, born 7 May 1948, in Richmond, Virginia died 18 February 2026. His parents were Frederick D. Gordon and Hazel Delaney Gordon of Virginia.

He was tall, dark, handsome and very smart. He graduated from the University of Richmond, followed up by degrees from the University of Utah and the Florida Institute of Technology. In between he spent 4 years as an officer in the US Army primarily stationed in Colorado Springs, Colorado, where he met his wife, Sharolyn Hayes of Seattle, Washington. They spent the next 54 years loving, working, traveling and enjoying life. He was employed primarily as a US Government contracting officer for gas and oil services. He and his wife finally retired in Hampton Roads, Virginia.

Doug was always a soft spoken “Southern Gentleman”. Most everyone he met or spoke with could see his interest in them and what they had to say. He was a listener…a rare talent. In addition, he was an incredible storyteller with a subtle sense of humor. He is missed by his wife, family and friends.

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Douglas Randall Gordon, born 7 May 1948, in Richmond, Virginia died 18 February 2026. His parents were Frederick D. Gordon and Hazel Delaney Gordon of Virginia. He was tall, dark, handsome and very smart. He graduated from the University of Richmond, followed up by degrees from the University of Utah and the Florida Institute of…

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We miss the days at the Continental Inn with you and Doug – such great memories! Sending you love and hugs, Sharolyn.

We met Doug & Sharolyn back in the early 1980's when us "Army" people were sent to Kirkland Air Force Base in Albuquerque NM. for the next assignment. We became instant friends. Lots of fun dinners together and other adventures. Sharolyn & I always talk on the phone and kept in touch over the years. Doug would come on the phone and remind me of something funny that we did together. He will be truly missed but will Always remain in our hearts and memories.

The pictures show the Doug I will always remember Rest In Peace

Doug was a great neighbor even though he was going to bed when I got home from work. A great friend for approximately 40 years.

Doug was a good looking man with a lovely Virginia drawl. But more than that, he was a nice man with a gentle manner and sense of humor. He always made me feel so welcome when I visited. He and Sharolyn were a well matched couple. He was loved and will be missed.

Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.

I first met Doug & Sharolyn in the midst of my travels around the world. Sharolyn is my first cousin once removed. I had just travelled in February on 30 day train pass on the Via rail system across Canada (from Seattle) and then started my way down the east seaboard and made it to DC where Doug and Sharolyn were living just outside in Alexandria. I was laid up in bed from a sinus infection with 102° when Doug came home from work and perked in to say hello. I stayed with them for a week & recovered with Doug and Sharolyn’s care. From then on I would come on visit and loved the long economics and political discussions Doug and I would have. Also enjoyed helping Doug & Sharolyn complete great puzzles. Will miss Doug greatly!

To my favorite cousin. I love so much and will remember you every day.

To the best brother in law ever. I miss you and love you forever. ❤️❤️❤️

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