Robert Edward Wilder
Date of Death: July 25, 2020

Robert Edward Wilder, 83, of Chesapeake, passed away July 25, 2020. He was also known as Bobby, Big Bob, and Big Daddy. He graduated from Oscar Smith in 1955 where he excelled in sports. He served in the U.S. Army as a paratrooper in the 82nd Airborne in the early ‘60s. He then had a successful career at C&P Telephone Co., where he retired after 42 years. He loved to spend time at “The Palace” – a  hunt club to which he belonged in Bath County, VA – where he hunted, cooked, and made lifelong friends.

He is survived by his wife, Barberina S. Wilder; son, Brandon Wilder; daughters, Kelle Schuh (Jeff) and Robyn Holt (James); grandsons, Jordan Wilder and Mason Holt; great granddaughter, Rowan Wilder; seven step-grandchildren; sister, Janice Wilson; and family friend, Rodney Murphy. A private family memorial will be held in Bath County. Condolences may be offered at vacremationsociety.com.

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Robert Edward Wilder, 83, of Chesapeake, passed away July 25, 2020. He was also known as Bobby, Big Bob, and Big Daddy. He graduated from Oscar Smith in 1955 where he excelled in sports. He served in the U.S. Army as a paratrooper in the 82nd Airborne in the early ‘60s. He then had a…

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Betsy Christmas left a message on May 23, 2021:
I read about the death of Bob and sending my condolences to the family. There are so many memories and one is his true love for cooking. My best to the family. Betsy Christmas
Roy Ward left a message on September 16, 2020:
Bob and I did a lot of cooking together Played softball for St Peters Church .What a great guy I will miss him
Karen (Wall) Baker left a message on September 14, 2020:
Robyn & Kelle, my heart aches with you over the loss of your dad. I have many fond memories of hanging out at your house during our wonderful years as Keyettes. I'm praying that God will give each of you an abundance of comfort and strength in the days ahead. I miss you both!
Billy OConnor left a message on September 14, 2020:
To the Wilder family, so sorry for your loss. I have fond memories of Bobby, my thoughts and prayers are with you all
Dianne Shank left a message on September 14, 2020:
Dearest Wilder Family, Bobby was a wonderful person. Always there to help. So many people will miss his warmth, love and smile. May his light forever shine. Dianne (Gayle Baker)
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Cindy Staha Machen left a message on September 13, 2020:
I read about Big Bob with a sadness and joy in my heart . Joy because I always loved being around Big Bob. He could always make me laugh. When I grew up on Goldcrest we had many social occasions in the neighborhood and I had a wonderful childhood growing up in our neighborhood. I really got to know Big Bob when he became pals with our dad, Val. They had many adventures that bring a smile to my face. My heartfelt sympathies to all the Wilder family. I send love hugs and kisses.
Karen Staha left a message on September 13, 2020:
Dear Barbie, Robyn, Kelle, and Brandon, Please accept my sincere condolences. I have such fond memories of Bob. The Stahas and Wilders had many good times together. My love and prayers go to each of you. Karen
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