Thomas Olenski - Cremation Society of Virginia

Thomas "Tom" Olenski

September 29, 1961 - June 1, 2024

Thomas (Tom) Olenski, age 62 of VA Beach, passed away unexpectedly June 1, 2024. He was predeceased in death by his father and mother, Robert Olenski and Sue Olenski. He is survived by his wife, Tammy Henry Olenski. His brothers-in-law, Randy Clary (Susan), Rick Henry (Lois), and Ryan Henry (Michelle).

For those who really knew Tom well, he loved to travel, a variety of worldly foods, a good game of “Texas Hold Em”, fine cigars, working out at the gym, floating in the pool, going out on his boat, ODU football and playing LOTS of pickleball. Tom was well-known in so many circles of friends because of his diversity of activities and interests. People know and remember Tom for his kind smile, encouragement and quick wit. He made friends easily all around the world. His all-time favorite thing to do was to spend time with his nieces and nephews. He loved them unconditionally.

Tom was so proud of his wife’s professional accomplishments and adored her kindness and philanthropic spirit. Tom’s favorite quote was “Enjoy life NOW. You never know when it will be your last day!” And that he did!

A “Celebration of Life” will be held at a later date.

Memorial Contributions may be made to “Cypress Point Circle Teddy Bear Fund” of the Kings Daughters c/o Leta Laugle President of Cypress Point Circle 1209 Course View Circle, Virginia Beach, VA 23455.
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“Liberty Church Fund”, Treasurer, 3381 Planters Rd., Lawrenceville, VA 23868, in memory of Tom Olenski.

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Tammy, you perfectly summarized everything about him. He was very generous and loved getting together with friends. When we were making arrangements to take a couple international vacations, Tom never hesitated to say that he and Tammy would join us, and we have many fond memories of those trips. In addition to his appreciation of finer foods, he knew a great bargain and introduced us to The Brass Bell for prime rib night...we were hesitant at first, but learned it was the best deal in town back in its hey-day. I paid that recommendation forward by introducing many other friends to the BB. One thing Tom and I recently discussed was that in our prime, we would have been a great team on The Amazing Race...his international travel experience plus whatever I might be able to contribute to the team would have made us great competitors (not to mention that we would eat anything served overseas that others might avoid.) I occasionally shared a glass of bourbon and cigar with Tom, so after I learned of his passing, I stopped by a distillery in his former hometown of Newport News and ordered a flight of bourbon in his honor. Rest in Peace.

Tammy, Manny and I are so heartbroken to hear of Tom's passing. Time was always full of life and ready to have a good time. I am so glad he got to do all the things he loved and travel like he did. He loved all the nieces and nephews and spoke of them whenever we saw him. He definitely loved life and love to enjoy it. He will be missed.

My deepest sympathies to Tammy and family. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I’m sending prayers your way. Aloha, Beverly Hudgins

My heart goes out to you and your wonderful family! I am crushed over this news. I have considered Tom as my lifelong Brother and will always remember him, his laugh, his positive attitude and most of all his fun loving outlook on life to live it now. Prayers are flowing in your direction! 🙏🏻😘🤗❤️🙏🏻

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Tom and Tammy have been our neighbors for years! Tom always was friendly and well-liked by all. I loved to hear him tell all about his travel stories while sitting at the pool. Everyone will miss Tom!

Warmest condolences to Aunt Tammy and the whole family. Tom was a wonderful man and I have nothing but wonderful memories of our times together. Rest in Peace

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